Tagged: Decision Making

Will I Ever Be Happy?

Will I Ever Be Happy?

Yesterday I was holding a coaching call with an amazing client. The purpose of the call was to strategize on how to build her business online, but somewhere, the conversation took a turn.

At one point in our call, she expressed a fear that she might never be happy all because someone she looked up to told her so years ago. That stuck with me and I decided to make a Facebook post to inquire what advice our followers would give this woman.

The response was amazing and full of fantastic insight. Today, I am pasting all of their responses for you to learn from:

she can always choose to go back to that moment and re-play those words to: ‘I will always be happy, it is my choice’, she can then practice that as a daily affirmation… when you believe you have the choice (really believe it at your core) […]

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The Danger of Keeping a Secret that You Feel You Should Tell Someone About

The Danger of Keeping a Secret that You Feel You Should Tell Someone About

When I was 16 I sat in a red convertible on Valentine’s Day with my friend. We were waiting for our boyfriends to come to the parking lot and meet us where we would then drive to a nice Italian restaurant for dinner.

I think about this moment in time regularly. If the boys had come down just minutes earlier maybe I could have missed her secret altogether. We all would have been better off I think.

Instead, I was alone with her. The moment was very real – and scary. She told me she had slept with my other friend’s long-time boyfriend and loved him. Once she was done with her confession, which she seemed oddly quite proud of, she looked at me with such intensity that the rest of the world was blocked out for a moment. She told me to take her secret to the grave and never tell […]

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New Conscious Divas Post: When You Wonder If You’re On the Right Track After Making a Decision

New Conscious Divas Post: When You Wonder If You’re On the Right Track After Making a Decision

Read my latest personal growth message posted as an expert author on the Conscious Divas website. Below is a teaser of the article with a link where you can read the full post. Enjoy today’s article on “When You Wonder If You’re On the Right Track After Making a Decision”!

“…Have I made the right decision? Where do I go from here? Will it turn out the way I hope?

These are all questions that plague the mind of someone when they’ve just leaped off into the unknown. Career changes are in place, relationships have ended or a new venture has just begun.

It is normal for us to second guess ourselves. Ultimately, we just want reassurance we have made the “right” decision and are headed in the “right” direction.

Instead of playing the right/wrong game, what if we instead have Trust in our Self. After all, the reason we’ve made a recent decision […]

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